Saturday, October 25, 2014

31 for 21: #25--Heart Update

Yesterday we went in for Owen's cardiology appointment.  It's been 2 years since our last visit and while it's always nice to see Dr. Rios because he's a nice guy, I never look forward to this appointment.  There's always this fear that he's going to say that something is wrong with Owen's heart and a surgery is needed to correct it.

I was impressed with Owen's direction following from the start:  the nurse needed to weigh him and check his height.  He had his shoes off before we even asked and he stood still for both measurements.  We were easily able to get his pulse ox (yay for a 100 reading!) and his blood pressure (normal range) as Owen just sat and listened to the nurse.  

We did need an ECHO done because it's been 2 years.  I brought the iPad and a DVD with me to make sure Owen had something to watch while the tech did his work.  The tech was an easy-going guy, who let Owen look at his machine before he needed to lay down.  Then Owen just climbed on the bed and laid down........no fuss, no muss!  I held up his iPad and we watched an episode of "Elmo's World" while the tech got all the images he needed.  Owen didn't even flinch when the cold jelly had to be put on his chest area.  

When Dr. Rios came in and had a big smile on his face, I knew everything looked good.  He listened to Owen's heart some and explained what he saw on the Echo--good, healthy, growing heart; minor leakage which is something he will always have.  No restrictions, no medications, no visit for 2 more years!  

Earlier in September, I actually forgot all about Owen's heart day on Sept. 3.  I know that might sound crazy that I forgot, but I truly did.  It was the second day of school and I had so many other thoughts invading the space in my head that it escaped me.  And in a way I'm glad it did.  I'm glad that instead of the worry, anxiety and wistfulness I normally feel on that day, I got to feel some joy and happiness about my little boy heading off to a full day of school.  Because that means he has been fixed--his heart is working correctly and he is able to enjoy his life without that worry clouding it over.

Dr. Rios said something interesting to me:  "Whenever I see Owen's name, I think of a little baby, so to see him now is a bit of a shock."  Dr. Rios saw me in my darkest moments when my little baby was being carted off for a major surgery, one in which I was so afraid that he would never be returned to me.  It makes me so glad for Dr. Rios to see him now.......a healthy 5 year old that is more than willing to offer him a hug and a high five.  These appointments will never be easy for me; I will always be anxious and worried, but I am forever grateful that Owen's heart is in very, very good hands.

Chillin' with my iPad
No worries, Mom, I've got this!



Friday, October 24, 2014

31 for 21: #24

"Ghosts" from Halloweens past................

2009--my little pumpkin
2010--a gentle lion
2011--a silly frog

2012--a funny monkey

2013--a fireman at your service
So what will this year bring?  You'll just have to wait until next week, but if you know anything about Owen, I'm sure you can hazard a guess!  :)

Thursday, October 23, 2014

31 for 21: #23



Ah, yes, 2 men, some tools, and a project..........what better bonding time?!  I will say that the storage unit is well put together and Owen really did like helping hammer in several nails.  He totally got into it, which made me terrified that he'd smash his thumb or destroy the new unit with his ferocious hammering skills!

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

31 for 21: #22


I took this photo of Owen on the light rail to Minneapolis over the weekend.  I can't help but look at it and wonder what he is thinking.  If he could tell me, what would he say?  That he was intrigued with the cars nearby?  Or that he wondered where we were headed?  Or how does the light rail work?

I fear that I'll never truly know what he's thinking because he doesn't have the words to tell me so.  When I hear people say that they wish their kids would shut up or that it would be great if kids came with off switch, I just want to say......be careful what you wish for.  I know what it's like to have a child with a permanent off switch.  And it's hard and sometimes heart-breaking.

If one day he woke up and started talking and never stopped, I wouldn't care.  And that is a very careful wish on my part.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

31 for 21: #21

It's the 21st of October so.........here are "21 Things About Owen"!

1.   He likes writing.  He is really getting into working on his name and his sight words everyday.

2.  He is a salty snacker--he likes goldfish crackers, tortilla chips, and potato chips.

3.  He loves vanilla ice cream.  Plain, simple, sweet.  Just vanilla.

4.  He conquered the rock wall on his swing set last week.  He doesn't need any help anymore!

5.  He really loves Curious George and understands when something is funny or when George gets in trouble.

6.  He is really getting in the swing of this potty training thing.  He isn't afraid to use public restrooms and several times in the last couple of weeks he has initiated and expressed a need to go.  This is big....really big!

7.  He loves going to the library at school.  He gets excited when he comes home with a new book each week.  It's the first one we read every night before bed.

8.  He understands so many things now without needing to be shown what I'm trying to indicate to him.  I can say things like "put your letter tiles away" or "let's load the dishwasher" and he gets it and comes around to help out.

9.  The kid loves it when I vacuum.  He runs himself into a frenzy and actually has a fit when I'm done.

10.  He is starting to chose his own clothes in the morning.  He isn't super specific, but he likes to look at some shirts before making a choice.

11.  Sadly, we are moving away from Sesame Street and Elmo.  He is much more into Curious George, Dinosaur Train, and Super Why than ever before.  He is growing up.

12.  He is communicating so much more these days, putting 2 and 3 signs together.  It's not rare anymore to see him request something "more milk, please, Mom" without hesitation.  I'm pretty sure school requires him to use those signs!

13.  He recently decided he isn't afraid of the shower anymore and wants to take one instead of a bath.  Now he's really growing up!

14.  He loves looking at pictures of his class.  His teacher sent home a picture of the class in front of the fire truck from the fire department visit a couple of weeks ago and a recent one from the apple orchard trip.  He likes pointing out his pals, Mrs. B., and himself.

15.  He is majorly in love with "The Incredibles" movie.  I'm pretty sure we're going to have to use that as his birthday party theme.

16.  He is slowly understanding the ideas about Halloween thanks to a bunch of books that we read regularly.  I wouldn't say he's going to care much, but I think he will understand the concept more this year.

17.  He makes up games outside.  His favorite one is to take a bunch of balls up to his clubhouse and drop them down, trying to hit the swing.  Rolling them down the slide is a second favorite choice.

18.  He loves riding the school bus.  He has charmed the bus driver and aide on his bus and he loves to say hi and bye to his friend "C" who sits across from him each day.

19.  He loves the ladies, no doubt about it.  But if you're a blonde, he'll stare at you a bit longer because this gentleman definitely prefers blondes!

20.  He goes through purple, seedless grapes like they're going out of style.  Seriously, I must buy like 3 lbs. a week and he eats every single one!

21.  He still falls asleep every night to a CD of lullabye music I made him when he was just a few weeks old.  I enjoy staying for a few songs while he falls asleep....yes, I'm creepy mom that watches her child sleep.  There's something so innocent about him when he's out!

Me and my bestest buddy ever!

Monday, October 20, 2014

31 for 21: #20


Hands.  Those little hands.

I remember those hands curling around my index finger when he was an infant.

I remember those hands playing with my hair when I would rock him to sleep.

I remember helping those hands do the motions for "Itsy, Bitsy Spider" and "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star".

I remember wondering what those little hands would be able to do.........stack blocks?  Turn knobs?  Zip up a coat?  Hold a cup?  Use a fork?  Paint a picture?  Turn the pages in a book?  Pick up food?  Toss a coin?  Dump leaves into the waste container?  Hang up a back pack?  Manipulate an iPad?  Write a name?

Hands.  Those little hands.

They do all of those things now.

In the future I suspect they will do more.....high five a classmate, put books in a locker, raise one to answer a teacher's question, dribble a basketball, empty the dishwasher, make a bed, tie shoes, hold the hand of a special gal.

But I was the first one that got to hold those little hands.  And I'm still the one that gets to hold those little hands when we cross the street or take a walk.

I love those little hands.


Sunday, October 19, 2014

31 for 21: #19

Whenever we go to the Mall of America, Owen HAS to go to the large water feature/fountain.  He demands some change so he can throw it in, so I try to save any coins I might have just for his amusement.  He likes it most when the coins make noise as they bounce off of something.  Luckily he hasn't hit me or another shopping patron.........yet!

Oh yes, lots of coins for me!


So happy that I got to throw my coins away!


Saturday, October 18, 2014

31 for 21: #18

In the afternoon when Owen gets home from school, we do a little homework--about 10 minutes worth.  Sometimes there is something from one of his teachers that needs to be done or it is something I have created for him to work on.  We always do a bit of writing and then we do either a cutting page to work on his scissor grip and control, a little math game to work on number recognition and correspondence or a sight word card matching game.

I'm really proud of how much better his writing has gotten over the last 2+ months that we've really been working on it.  He has a way to go, but it's getting better everyday.  Slow and steady.......slow and steady....really does win the race.  For awhile we (private OT, spec. ed. teacher and myself) were trying to get him to choose one hand dominance because he just wanted to use both hands all the time.  During the summer, he finally chose and ..........he's a lefty!  Of course, Dad is a lefty too, so once again, Mom is left in the dark.  Hmpph.


As you can see, Owen is doing pretty well writing his own name.  When we do hand over hand, I can feel every movement he makes and he knows how to make the letters.  I barely hold his hand and just say each letter and off he goes.  The right hand side are the sight words and letters his entire class is working on.  Again, I can simply rattle off the letters and he will move the pen to write them.  Holding his hand is really only for pen grip/control.  He doesn't need me to help him shape anything....he knows his stuff.  I am hoping by the end of the school year that he won't need any hand over hand assistance.

Friday, October 17, 2014

31 for 21: #17

We've been going to the therapy center for nearly 5 years now.  Owen knows all the therapists and office staff.  He knows where everything is--the gym, the kitchen area, the snack cabinet, various therapists' rooms.  He also thinks he's in charge!  One of the front desk workers, Jackie, loves to let him sit at the desk as if he works there.  I always tell them......you wouldn't want him to work here, he's a disaster and will likely use the computer to find Youtube for Curious George and baseball.


Always wants me to take more pictures every. single. time!

Thursday, October 16, 2014

31 for 21: #16

Owen and Solito........two peas in a pod.  They truly are best buds and are so much alike, it's scary!  Having a child with a disability can change a person.  I've seen my husband become a softer person; he cares about Owen's well-being and loves the little boy that he is.  I feel so lucky to have both of them in my life.

Watching home run highlights......what else is new??